thank you for just landing at my web site weather by chance guidance or wilful searching its good to have you here :-) well this is the expose Dane (thats me ) and at least some of my journey that i feel has and is continually giving me the tools to help assist and guide others in order to fast track where possible past the years of suffering and just managing to get by often self medicating with a variety of wonders some legal and some not so 

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i would like to make clear from the start i am not advocating the path that brought me to this point nor am i proud or ashamed of the things i will no doubt share either on the site or during a session (if relevant and helpful )  as if you get to know who i am deeply as a human you will learn i believe in total ownership as one of my most favoured ways to freedom 

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i feel like i have (in reflection) lived several separate lives in this one single body and mind as im sure many of you will recognise is self 

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i was lucky in the beginning i was a wanted baby conceived out of wedlock and born in it  and in some circumstances that could be seen as a shotgun wedding lol (not in this case )

my first memories are all good I remember laughter tasty food and love from all directions 

i have great memories of love and attention from my dad i remember felt like we were joined i remember crying as my dad left for work even getting my arm stuck at the elbow waving good bye as he stood on the landing awaiting the lift in Edmonton   and when the lift came i could not my arm out the letterbox and i remember my mum getting the butter dish and eventually getting my arm released and i remember my mum saying calm down or we will have to get the fire brigade and that worked to be a good calming strategy  i remember now as i type i felt closer to my dad than i did my mum and my mum has told me just in this moment as i type as a 57 year young adult my dad used to rush home from work to be with me no pub with his pals but all ways straight home and my mum tells me that if i was ever sick and while teething my dad would sleep upright with me on his chest and comfort me even though he had to be up at 6 am every week day for work and he never moaned or wanted to share the load i remember  my dad taking me to the beach to rock pools showing me star fish turning one over and telling me they can sting you from their under side i remember him holding me and pointing up in the sky telling me about stars and the moon and telling me about space ship that i now know was the first moon landing i remember my dad taking us up London lifting me on to the cannons at the tower of London and lifting me on to the lions at trafalgar square i remember going to the zoo when my younger brother put his finger in a monkey cage and the monkey bit and latched on to my brothers finger and would not let go my dad pulled  my brothers hand away from the cage and the monkey would not let go and my dad punched the monkey on the nose sending it flying backwards through the caged enclosure all though as a adult i may have thoughts and feeling about monkeys in cages in that moment my dad was a hero the protector of us